Mma Ramotswe reflected on how easy it was to find oneself committed to a course of action simply because one lacked the courage to say no.

Alexander McCall Smith
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It is more difficult to follow our hearts than to do what is expected of us. Mma Ramotswe often found herself bound by the expectations of others, but she did not allow this to stop her from doing what she wanted. She did not want to disappoint her employer, but she did not let this be the reason why she had to stay in Gaborone. She knew that if she left, it would be easier for her to learn more about herself, and about the world around her.

Source: Tears Of The Giraffe

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